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In order to receive something from others, we need to give something +1 back to others

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Give BEFORE you receive

Many think that they will start to give after they receive. This thought manifests from fear…fear that what they have in the present is given away and leaves them with less than what they will have in the future. Little do they realize that this reverse thinking can only lead them back to a life of want and poverty.

Your thoughts, words, and actions determine what vibrational state that you occupy

When we fear that we will lose our material wealth, we enter into a state of vibration that can only attract to us what we don’t want in life. By contrast, we can create abundance with our gifts and not create lack. Therefore, when we give freely to others, this action puts us in a creative and cooperative mode and not a competitive mode. Being in this positive state brings success to our doorways. Empires have been built upon this premise; think about the success and the philanthropy of the great motivational speaker and writer, Anthony Robbins.

Successful internet marketers know it is best to give before they receive

Here’s yet another example of how we can reach success by giving to others first before we receive what we want. The successful Internet marketers have taken this simple idea and have it down to a science. They understand the concept that they must give in order to receive. So, when you purchase their latest e-book for $39.99, they give you six free gifts worth hundreds of dollars more than your original investment. And the chances are that you will buy again from the same marketer in the future since you have received much more than what you paid for.

Give of your Self and not just give money to help others

Nevertheless, this is not just about giving money, it’s about giving of your Self. It’s about giving your time, your expertise, or of your knowledge to help others. For example, you can volunteer at a homeless shelter, conduct a fund raising event, or tutor young entrepreneurs in your hometown. In the end, it’s not about what you give, rather, it’s about how you give.

However, you must give without a scale to measure what you will receive back for your philanthropy

When you give freely of yourself or your material goods, without guilt or obligation, you receive deep joy and gratitude for what you have done. As a result, these feelings place you in a state of positive vibration which then attracts even greater benefits back to you.

Don’t think to get this I must give that…this kind of thinking will backfire on you

This is not to say that you should just give and give and not expect anything in return. I mean that you should receive, however, it certainly is not by thinking that you should get that when you give this. This kind of thinking will surely back-fire and your goals will be pushed further away and manifest as grief in the future.

Give freely to manifest positive feelings which in turn, manifest the results you are striving to attain

You get what you want in your life when you help others get what they want in their life. No one holds a scale to weigh what you get is equal to what you give. It is beyond the materials that are given. It is the positive feelings that you emit to the universe once you have freely given to others, in whatever shape or form that may be, which triggers the gates of abundance to be opened to you. Surely, when you consciously make it a point to give more to someone than what you expect back, you benefit greatly from your own unselfishness acts. this is the Law. 

It’s a WIN -WIN situation for them and you

Think about this when giving: I give something +1 to others for them to be successful which helps me to become successful. At the heart of this thinking…it’s a WIN-WIN situation.

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“True happiness manifests from negotiation with your Self; true happiness does not manifest from competition with others.”

The new mentality 

The new mentality appears to be one where a person must win at all costs and without any regard for ethics or the wrongdoings to humankind or the environment. The media plays this one up where you are Number 1 when you beat the competition down and stand like a triumphant gladiator over a bloodied opponent in the Roman Coliseum. However, this selfish; ME at all cost attitude, can only produce ephemeral happiness and not true happiness which is sustained over a person’s lifetime.

photo-1462040015891-7c792246b10eAre you living your life by negotiation or competition? 

A person can live their life through negotiation or competition: the former being in a positive state of vibration while the latter in a negative state of vibration. In a competitive mindset, a person always must outdo their colleagues, their neighbors, their own family members. The act of beating another person is tied to and reflected by the winner’s perception of self-worth: they rationalize if I can own bigger, costlier, and rarer objects than you, then I am worth more to my Self and worth more than your Self.

Your self-esteem can be battered or bolstered  

So, when you discover that a friend or colleague has a smaller house, your esteem soars but when you find a friend or colleague with a bigger house your self-esteem takes a dive. And that goes for the model of your car, your watch, your vacations, and any of your earthly possessions. When you base your life and your self-worth upon material goods, you’ll never have the biggest, best, or brightest toy.

Negotiation manifests a higher sense of awareness 

True happiness comes when you are constantly in negotiation with your Self. Negotiation focuses upon the awareness of your thoughts, words, and actions at the very moment. As you monitor your thoughts, words, and actions along the Continuum of Awareness, you are striving to be the best you can and the best for humankind. You negotiate your current state of mind to be in a higher state of awareness.

Set aside your ego to attain your goals 

You set aside your ego to attain your goals with your life’s journey while encapsulating faith, gratitude, compassion, and ethics. You fully understand that your results occur within cosmic timelessness. You place your faith and belief in the Source to align all the circumstances, persons, and objects that are required to achieve your goal and ultimately your happiness.

How to create positive energy

Your thoughts create the flow of positive energy which effortlessly manifests goals for you, hence, no worry, no fear, no envy, no jealousy, no competition.

Material possessions are temporary, your soul is permanent 

In the end, no matter how many material possessions you accumulate in your life, you will not have a minute longer on Earth, you will not be better than anyone else, and you will not have greater happiness. The noted French philosopher Voltaire wrote ‘Man is free at the moment he wishes to be.’ You can instantly achieve the dizzying heights of an eagle and be free of negative thoughts and negative vibrations when you make the decision to be in constant negotiation with your Self and not to be in constant competition with others.